Younger Men Falling For Mature Women - Does This Make Sense?

First off, there's Demi Moore and Madonna. These characteristically strong, independent and mature women paired of with younger men. Then suddenly it has become the trend- a younger man and mature women tandem. And why's that? What is it that a man would find attractive in an older woman? We have been used to the notion that youth equates to beauty, and this is what men salivate after. Then it seemed as if the tables have turned. Mature women now have their sparks on center stage. Does this mean in anyway that younger ladies are becoming extinct? Perhaps not at all, but rather older women are coming to the forefront in the dating game.

Men actually find them attractive and the mature women seduction market is becoming lucrative. Even in forums and blogs, the brawny of the genders have spoken out on the issue. For one thing, many male of the species agreed that mature women exude exotic sexuality. This may not be surprising as these women have been ripened by experience. They do know their way in the bedroom. And they are known to be wild in matters concerning the sexual. Despite the age difference, an older woman may still have ardent passion in sex. A younger man on the other hand has the energy to keep up and be exposed to more learning experience.

Mature women, having gained sophistication and independence, are ready to explore the world. Men would love to go for the ride of the excitement. It is a different scenario with a mature partner, as some men would attest. Whereas younger ladies seek security and would want to be pampered, it's the other way around with mature women. It is the man who ends up being pampered and cared for with motherly affection. And they say younger men can be such babies in so many ways. Younger ladies often end up as somewhat of a burden for their partners, what with tantrums and being somewhat dependent.

But for mature ones, they don't need anybody to define them. They are secure of their identity and exude more stability. Then of course this brings the issue of men simply playing around with mature partners. They can be in the partnership for mere fun and experience, or even for financial gain. Mature women are often stable when it comes to finances, too. But it can be a case of give and take. Wherein the woman gains physical favors from a younger man. While the younger man gets to have financial gain from the set-up. Or in some cases, the relationship can have substance.

After all, affection does not primarily concern age, but is rather a matter of coming to an understanding. So how can a younger man win an older woman's attention, or else affection. Be it younger women or older ones, what remains to be attractive in a man is being a gentleman. Times have changed, and in the dating jungle, nobody really knows the predator from the prey.

The author of this article Rose Windale is a Health and Wellness Coach who has been successful with several natural health programs for many years. Rose decided to share her knowledge and tips through her website http://www.healthzine.org. You can sign up for her free newsletter and enjoy a healthy and happy life.